It is no secret that a lot of mature single males relocate to Thailand hoping to find love again in their lives, but it’s not as easy as one might think.
Nothing at all wrong with this, but the chances of finding a decent long-term relationship that will work out long-term and stand the test of time are less than 1% for various reasons. One of the main reasons is that some ladies think they would like to get out of that lifestyle until they do, and then a few months later, they want to go back to it.
We only introduce our members to friends or friends of friends who are known to us. Most are divorced, and they are all working in full-time employment with long hours, usually for modest enough salaries. For the most part, Thai guys have no interest in a 40-year-old lady, even if she is very presentable, which creates opportunities for decent foreign guys.
If these ladies find a decent, respectable, quality guy who can offer them a better life, they are always very interested, and they don’t mind age gaps, either within reason.
Thai ladies are the most caring you will find anywhere in the world, despite what some YouTube channels would lead you to believe with horror stories, but here are a few questions that should be asked about these horror stories:
1. Where did they meet the lady? Most people don’t realise that less than 1% of Thai ladies work in the bar trade.
2. Who was the guy in the first place, and what level of intellect did he possess to begin with?
We assist all our members on how not to fall into certain situations that could become messy and expensive, but because of the quality of the available friends in our network, the chances of drama are very slim to begin with.
The reality is that there are a lot more relationship success stories in Thailand than youtube would have you believe, and the reasons for this is those with successful relationships are too busy living life to be bothered telling their story on youtube or anywhere else.
“I met Mon at a social BBQ event 6 months ago now. She is a 38 year old nurse in a private Bangkok hospital, and great fun to be with.
She spends her weekends with me in Pattaya, and I go and stay with her in Bangkok usually one night a week, which is a nice change for me too. The bus is only 5 euro, and a very comfortable 2 hour ride.
We have discussed the possibility of Mon finishing her job so that we can spend much more time together, and for reasons to do with her contract it is best that she wait until this August to quit.
I consider myself so lucky to have met Mon, and she has put purpose and a new spring in my step since we met. It’s a really beautiful feeling to have such a loving caring and genuine partner who is worth looking after, and sharing my life with.”
Peter from Limerick
